There’s a big difference between cracking a joke and crossing a line. And when that line gets crossed at the expense of your own wife, especially on national television, it stops being funny. It becomes disrespectful.
The Roasting That Doesn’t Feel Right
Watching Kajol and Ajay Devgn in interviews can be entertaining. She’s bubbly, full of life. He’s dry, reserved, often sarcastic. Together, they make a curious mix. But if you look closely, Ajay’s jabs at Kajol — especially the ones dressed up as “jokes” — don’t always sit right. What seems like harmless banter sometimes edges into something uncomfortable.
And no, this isn’t about being sensitive. It’s about respect — especially in a relationship that’s constantly under the public eye.
Something Feels Off
Ajay often appears uninterested during interviews with Kajol. His energy changes completely when he's with other actresses — more laughter, more engagement, less eye-rolling. That contrast says a lot.
Now compare that with how he treats Kajol on public platforms — there are moments where he walks away while she’s still smiling for cameras, or where he barely makes eye contact during a public hug. These aren’t rare blips. They’ve happened often enough to make people notice.
Looking Back at the Beginning
Let’s rewind. Before Kajol, there was Raveena Tandon. Then came Karisma Kapoor. Ajay reportedly dated both — and left both in complicated ways. Raveena once mentioned how deeply hurt she was when Ajay publicly denied knowing her, even though they were close during college days.
Ajay and Karisma dated for a while, but then came Hulchul, the film that brought Ajay and Kajol together. At that time, both were in other relationships — and both ended those relationships to be with each other. They married in 1999.
But let’s not forget — they started out by breaking someone else's heart. That kind of beginning always leaves questions hanging.
Strange Relationship Dynamics
Their marriage has always felt a little… off. Ajay says he didn’t even like Kajol in the beginning — found her too talkative. She, in turn, admits they had no sparks at first. So how did that turn into marriage? Their own versions of the story don’t always line up.
And even after tying the knot, things haven’t exactly looked smooth. Ajay’s name has been linked with various actresses over the years — Kangana, Ileana, Tabu, to name a few. That’s Bollywood, yes. But the way he interacts with Kajol publicly still raises eyebrows.
When Public Moments Get Too Honest
One time, Kajol wanted to pose a little longer for photographers. Ajay walked off without a word. Another time, he gave her a hug without even looking at her. In a different clip, while standing with their son Yug, Kajol literally had to nudge Ajay to put his arm around her. That’s not introversion — that’s disinterest.
People say, “He’s just not expressive.” But that’s not the full truth. He’s plenty expressive — just not with his wife.
Offensive “Humor” in Interviews
There are jokes, and then there are jabs that hit below the belt. Ajay once said on a talk show that Kajol is getting old and should play a mother’s role now. The irony? He’s older than her, yet regularly stars opposite actresses half his age.
He also made a sweeping remark that most men in Bollywood lie when they say they love their wives. These aren’t edgy jokes. These are red flags.
But What About Kajol?
Some people try to shift the focus to Kajol — pointing out her chemistry with Shah Rukh Khan or occasional remarks. But Kajol has never insulted her husband in public. Yes, she once snapped on a talk show, but it was after Ajay had said something rude first. It was a reaction, not a pattern.
She’s always treated him with the same warmth, whether in front of fans or co-stars. That’s a stark difference.
The Cryptic Hints on Social Media
Lately, Kajol has been posting quotes that seem to hint at something deeper going wrong. From talking about facing tough trials to saying, “Every time a man wrongs a woman, God pushes his hairline back,” these messages haven’t gone unnoticed. She even posted a Valentine’s Day story celebrating herself — a subtle, telling move.
Meanwhile, Ajay’s Valentine’s post felt like an attempt at saving face — sweet words, smiling pictures, but lacking the emotional spark fans expect from a real love story.
Why Does She Stay, Then?
That’s the million-dollar question. If Kajol is being disrespected or even cheated on, why does she stay?
Maybe it’s the kids. Maybe it’s the fear of breaking a long-standing image. Maybe it’s because she grew up in a divorced household and doesn’t want her children to experience that. Or maybe, just maybe, she’s trying to keep things together for reasons only she truly understands.
In celebrity circles, especially with influences like Karan Johar, even cheating is sometimes redefined. “Sexual infidelity isn’t real cheating,” he once said. That mindset could very well play a role in how someone rationalizes pain.
Final Thoughts: What Is Love Without Respect?
Public admiration doesn’t mean a relationship is healthy. Staying together for decades doesn’t mean love is thriving. And certainly, longevity is not a substitute for kindness, dignity, or mutual respect.
If a husband refuses to even hold his wife’s hand in public, that’s not introversion. That’s avoidance. And that says more about the relationship than any Instagram caption ever could.